For people who make plans to look good and end up looking the same !

The reason why you're reading this right now could be, that you're able to connect with the title of this article and if this is true, it shows that you're among the people who make plans to look good and end up looking the same. Have you ever wondered why this happens? I mean, there must be times when each one of you would have decided to look fabulous or lets say totally different  for a party, function, college or school reopening but when it actually came to turn plans into reality, you just couldn't do it. This is actually same as the situation where people make plans for exercising daily, going for a diet plan and they just end up eating more! And I'm sure this happens with at least 70% people and could be more! Now the reason for this, as far as I think ( Wait, I'm not a psychiatrist so please don't believe blindly to anything that I say ) could be sheer laziness or the assumption that life will provide you with many more occasions and opportunities to look good, so the coming occasion doesn't matter that much. But if a person continues to think this way, then he is definitely going to have a life full of regrets and nothing to tell to his grandchildren :P

So, here are few things you can do and you should do
1. Don't make plans at all and be happy with what you are, but you won't listen to me and will end up making plans anyway!

2. Once made plans, please start working on them from that moment itself. I know you're too lazy to do that, but try at least?

3. Once started working on them, please continue to do it and don't give up, don't you want people to compliment you that you're looking awesome, huh?

4. Don't listen to people who discourage you or criticize you and are thereby  are able to stop you from achieving your desires. ( A round of applause for such people, but seriously..They deserve a slap )

5. And finally, if you're able to achieve even 30% of what you planned, then feel happy and live that moment.

The reason why I wrote this is because I belong to the same category of people and I'm still working on it. And remember, life might present you with many more opportunities, but each time you give up on your desires , you're subtracting that one opportunity from your life.

Live the moment and feel happy :)

It's not just a haircut..It's the new you!

This is about a friend, who recently got a haircut. Yes, her long black hair have now been cut short. My best friend was talking about getting a haircut since months and guess what, she has got kind of a boy cut with some feathery touch. The girl use to have long hair and look what a drastic change! But a drastic change was also observed in her way of talking and the way she behaved during that day. And talking generally, it has been observed that girls usually cut their hair short after having a break up and yes, even I did that once upon a time. We might just take it lightly, we get a haircut to give us a new look and to keep our hair healthy but there's a lot a haircut can do to your mind. After having a haircut one feels light, energetic, positive and motivated. I don't know the scientific reason for this, this is just an observation. A new haircut brings a positivity in ourselves, there might be a different case with boys but in girls, this is 101% true. So, does that mean that whenever there comes a stage of depression and boredom, it's time you should get a haircut? Though the effect maybe temporary but it lift one's life state completely and on the top of it, if your new haircut suits you well then the joy of having it may double up and again adding to it, if you receive compliments for your new look, then the effect may last long. Basically, our mind and body need changes, and hair seems to be the only medium for those changes, though there are other ways but still there's very less that one can do with the rest of his body but since hair and nails are the dead cells of your body, they provide an easy medium for experimentation. I've seen many people, who keep experimenting with their hair, maybe it's their desire of looking good or it's the need of their mind to experience a change once in a while. With this, I've decided that I'm getting a haircut next month, what about you?